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K.J. Ramsey
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This Too Shall Last
The Book of Common Courage

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there are places of healing
into which you cannot travel
without the map
of a human face
turned toward yours
with compassion
for all the hard steps
that have brought
you here today.

there are footpaths of freedom
onto which you cannot roam
without t
Detach from every dynamic
that draws you into frequent fighting
—for you were made for flourishing.

Someone else’s opinion
—of you,
and of others—
doesn’t get to override
operating out of your gifting
and your unshakabl
I almost gave up.

I traced the topography to plot out places
where the elevation matched the moisture
needed for goodness to grow
for this season, this climate, this land. 

I’m living somewhere new,
but I thought my old
knowledge would make i
Today was A DAY.

After bearing witness to the beautiful tenderness of my clients today in particularly brutal things, these words from #BookOfCommonCourage feel just right (swipe):

Your tender heart
is not a liability
or immaturity.

Your tender he
Some of you have been labeled unhealthy and unruly, when really, you were just courageous enough to grow as large as you were created to be. 

Yesterday morning, a group of friends gathered around our table for what I have affectionately named Not Ch
🏡 We bought our first house! 😭🙌🏌

One week ago we moved to Colorado Springs, and we couldn’t be more grateful. Owning a home is a dream I wasn’t sure would ever be possible for us.

Five years ago we stepped down from serving at a chu
You do not need to think
your way to faith 
fierce enough to frighten 
fragility into a footnote.

You do not need to lace 
your lips with lustrous prayers
or pound your chest in penance
for the puzzle of your pain.

You do not need to
I’ve had prayers thrust on me like daggers to cut away the distress of my diseases as though faith is the fine edge of a blade we take to our brokenness. No unasked for prayer has ever lifted my burden or vanished my vulnerability. 

But every